Avoid the Facebook Trap

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Christmas has passed, but the new year approaches. This is an opportunity to start fresh, make changes and try to be better than the previous years.

If you are new to the Advent Conspiracy idea, then this is perfect timing for you to start off the new year on the right foot. This is the time to start investing in your family and friends.

One of the many ways you can do this is through Facebook. But beware, there is a hidden trap you can get stuck in. I know I have. Facebook will give you news and photos and updates all about your friends and family without actually having to see or talk to them. Every time you see a photo or a funny status you feel like you are part of their lives, but in many ways this helps to alienate you. It’s as if you are interacting with them. But you are not. Even commenting on photos and other people’s walls isn’t enough to invest in them. I have definitely gotten caught up in this, especially this last year.

So now I am making a change. I am going to see and talk to my friends outside of Facebook. I am going to make the time to see them and try to be the friend they deserve to have. Facebook isn’t all bad of course, it’s what you do with it.

Last week I heard a great story on the news. The woman had posted that she and her family were going on a road trip several states away. Her best friend from 7th grade, whom she hadn’t seen in years saw this and offered to drive to a restaurant near her route so they could catch up. This is an example of using Facebook to further your relationships.

I am hoping to change some of my ways in the new year. I know it won’t be overnight, but I’m going to try and see my Facebook interactions for what they are. Small ways to add to investing in my friends and family. I hope that you will too.

How do you plan on being there more for your friends and family this coming year?